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Toffee

VerifiedTech-Assisted Matchmaking

Privately educated professionals in the UK

Last Updated: July 2026

Overall Score7.8out of 10

Performance Scores

Editorial scores based on our assessment methodology

Safety & Privacy8.0
Ease of Use9.0
Value for Money9.0
Match Quality7.0
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Our Expert Review

Toffee carved out a unique niche by catering specifically to alumni of private schools and elite universities in the UK. The app blends technology with exclusivity, verifying educational backgrounds to create a curated pool of like-minded professionals. While critics call it elitist, users appreciate the shared cultural frame of reference that comes with similar educational backgrounds.

Pricing Plans

Free

GBP 0

Basic features included

  • Create profile
  • Browse matches
  • Limited messaging
Premium

GBP 14.99/mo

All features unlocked

  • Unlimited messaging
  • Advanced filters
  • See who likes you
  • Priority visibility
Get Premium

User Demographics

Age Range21 - 55
18Primary: 25-4065+
Gender RatioBalanced

Pros & Cons

Pros

  • Unique niche in educational matching
  • Verified backgrounds
  • Curated user base
  • Affordable pricing

Cons

  • Perceived as elitist
  • Limited to UK primarily
  • Small user base
  • Narrow demographic focus

Key Features

Private school verificationAlumni matchingCurated profilesInvite-only sectionsBackground verificationEvent listingsUK-focused

Available In

UK

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