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Bestseller by Peter Burchardt
Designed to Feel
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Best Matchmakers in New York City

Expert rankings of the top matchmakers in New York City, scored on safety, ease of use, value, and match quality.

New York City is the matchmaking capital of the United States, home to more luxury and boutique matchmakers than any other city. The fast-paced lifestyle and demanding careers of New Yorkers drive strong demand for professional matchmaking services. From legendary figures like Janis Spindel to modern firms like Enamour, the city offers options at every price point.

Top Matchmakers (17)

1
💎

Kelleher International

✓Luxury Matchmaking

Affluent professionals seeking long-term commitment

9.5
From $2,500/mo
2
👑

Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking

✓Luxury Matchmaking

High-net-worth men serious about marriage

9.3
From $4,166/mo
3
🔍

Selective Search

✓Luxury Matchmaking

Executives and professionals seeking marriage-minded partners through personalized, offline matchmaking

9.2
From $2,083/mo
4
💘

Tawkify

✓Executive Matchmaking

Busy professionals who want curated matches without app fatigue

9.0
From $833/mo
5
📅

Three Day Rule

✓Executive Matchmaking

Young professionals in major US cities

8.9
From $833/mo
6
🌹

Enamour

✓Executive Matchmaking

Ambitious professionals seeking a modern matchmaking experience

8.8
From $1,667/mo
7
❤️

Agape Match

✓General Matchmaking

New York professionals seeking genuine connections

8.7
From $1,250/mo
8
🎯

VIDA Select

✓International Matchmaking

Professionals who want a modern, data-driven matchmaking approach

8.7
From $995/mo
9
🎀

Lisa Clampitt Matchmaking

✓General Matchmaking

New York singles seeking a seasoned matchmaker with social work background

8.5
From $1,250/mo
10
🦁

Lyons Elite

✓Luxury Matchmaking

Ultra-high-net-worth individuals seeking model-quality matches

8.5
From $4,167/mo
11
🎩

Bespoke Matchmaking

✓General Matchmaking

East Coast professionals seeking customized matchmaking

8.5
From $1,250/mo
12
🔵

The Inner Circle

✓Tech-Assisted Matchmaking

Ambitious young professionals in major cities worldwide

8.2
Free
13
🏆

The League

✓Tech-Assisted Matchmaking

Ambitious professionals who want a vetted dating pool

8.1
Free
14
📸

Model Quality Introductions

✓Luxury Matchmaking

Successful men seeking physically exceptional partners

8.0
From $2,500/mo
15
🍽️

It's Just Lunch

✓Executive Matchmaking

Busy professionals who want low-pressure first dates

8.0
From $417/mo
16
🌹

Hinge

UnverifiedTech-Assisted Matchmaking

Millennials and Gen Z singles looking for serious relationships through engaging profile prompts

8.0
Free
17
📍

DateSpot

✓Tech-Assisted Matchmaking

Tech-savvy professionals who want AI-enhanced matchmaking with human curation

8.0
From $199/mo
Designed to Feel
Bestseller by Peter Burchardt
Designed to Feel
Why Evolution Built Your Emotions, and How to Make Them Work for You
“The most eye-opening book on emotions I’ve ever read.”
Get It on Amazon →Paperback & Kindle

How Much Does a Matchmaker Cost in New York City?

Matchmaking services in New York City typically range from $1,500 - $50,000+ depending on the level of service.

ServiceCategoryMonthly Cost
Kelleher InternationalLuxury MatchmakingUSD 2,500/mo
Janis Spindel Serious MatchmakingLuxury MatchmakingUSD 4,166/mo
Selective SearchLuxury MatchmakingUSD 2,083/mo
TawkifyExecutive MatchmakingUSD 833/mo
Three Day RuleExecutive MatchmakingUSD 833/mo
EnamourExecutive MatchmakingUSD 1,667/mo
Agape MatchGeneral MatchmakingUSD 1,250/mo
VIDA SelectInternational MatchmakingUSD 995/mo
Lisa Clampitt MatchmakingGeneral MatchmakingUSD 1,250/mo
Lyons EliteLuxury MatchmakingUSD 4,167/mo

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does a matchmaker cost in NYC?
NYC matchmakers range from $5,000 to $150,000+ per year. Luxury services like Janis Spindel and Lyons Elite start around $50,000, while mid-tier firms like Tawkify and Three Day Rule offer packages from $5,000-$15,000.
What is the best matchmaking service in New York?
Top-rated NYC matchmakers include Janis Spindel for ultra-luxury clients, Agape Match for a warm and inclusive approach, and Enamour for modern professionals. The best choice depends on your budget and dating goals.
Are NYC matchmakers worth the investment?
For busy professionals in New York, matchmakers save significant time and provide access to vetted, relationship-minded singles. Most NYC matchmakers report high satisfaction rates among clients who are serious about finding a partner.
How long does matchmaking take in New York?
Most NYC matchmakers introduce clients to their first match within 1-4 weeks. Finding a long-term partner typically takes 3-9 months of active matchmaking, depending on how selective you are.
Do NYC matchmakers offer free consultations?
Yes, most reputable NYC matchmakers offer a complimentary initial consultation where they assess your goals, explain their process, and provide pricing information before you commit.
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