Designed to Feel
Bestseller by Peter Burchardt
Designed to Feel
Your anxiety, jealousy, and anger aren't broken — they're ancient software running in a world they weren't built for. This book is the missing manual.
“The most eye-opening book on emotions I've ever read.”
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Gray & Farrar

VerifiedLuxury Matchmaking

International professionals and UHNW individuals

Last Updated: July 2026

Overall Score9.1out of 10

Performance Scores

Editorial scores based on our assessment methodology

Safety & Privacy10.0
Ease of Use8.0
Value for Money7.0
Match Quality10.0
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Our Expert Review

Gray & Farrar is one of the UK's most prestigious matchmaking firms, serving ultra-high-net-worth individuals across the globe. With offices in London and a network spanning multiple continents, they specialize in discreet introductions for clients who value privacy above all. Their psychometric profiling approach goes deeper than most competitors, resulting in exceptionally well-aligned matches.

Pricing Plans

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GBP 3000/mo

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User Demographics

Age Range25 - 70
18Primary: 30-5565+
Gender RatioBalanced through recruitment

Pros & Cons

Pros

  • Truly global reach
  • Exceptional discretion
  • Sophisticated profiling methods
  • Strong Middle Eastern and European network

Cons

  • Very high price point
  • Small team limits capacity
  • Long timeline for international matches
  • UK-centric despite global claims

Key Features

Global search capabilityPsychometric profilingFace-to-face interviewsBackground verificationPersonal introductionsDedicated matchmakerDiscreet service

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UKUAESwitzerlandFranceUSA

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